I stayed with my partner for a while who gave it to me, I liked and cared about him a lot, but at the same time I knew deep down I was also with him because I was scared I would never find anyone who would accept me with herpes. (As ridiculous as it sounds). And feared that if I did find someone, I couldnt find anyone better. But he tried playing it off like he didnt know, but now I think he really knew all along he had herpes and gave it to me. 6 months pass and he cheated on me with the girl he got it from... Ask them what they think and see which story is more likely to be true, most importantly ALWAYS listen to your gut, even if it doesn't make sense right away. Dont stay with someone because your scared of being alone either, it'll backfire in the end.. Good luck