While contemplating the difficult issue of when to tell a partner about herpes, I realized there's one situation that is truly an ethical obstacle course: one-night stands.
For some people, this is a no-brainer as they find such sex meaningless, and therefore avoid it. For others, however, casual sex was a lifestyle that won't stop because they've been infected with an STD.
Obviously I can't recommend having casual sex or one-night stands. That said, I also can't pretend that I...

