I'm sure many of you, like me, have been dealing with incontinence and the associated issues for a long time. And, like me, I'm sure you have had your share of disappointments in trying to obtain medical care for it.

I don't think doctors and their staff mean to be uncaring or insensitive. I know they are very busy. But that is no excuse for a lack of care which may result in a life?threatening situation. It does seem sometimes like some of them feel their patients are there to serve the...