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The Truth about Digestive Disease & Marital Harmony

By Tracy Davenport, Ph.D., Health Guide Wednesday, July 30, 2008
IBD has the potential to impact every aspect of your marriage, from where you and your partner vacation, to what happens in the bedroom. But even though chronic disease can impact your life in multiple ways, it is important to know the truth and not make erroneous assumptions about what impact digest...
8/ 1/08 8:56pm

As a single woman, I worry that telling men about my celiac disease and microscopic colitis will cause a problem.  Between the two diseases, there is so little I can eat - foreign food - a problem waiting to happen;  spontaneity in eating - won't happen.  I just feel like I would be a burden on any kind of trip or vacation (I also have a severe foot problem and can't do a lot of walking - one more thing to add to the mix).  Obviously, I wouldn't tell someone until I knew them well but it does scare me sometimes.

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Tracy Davenport
8/ 5/08 2:26pm

Mary Lee,

 

Thank you for posting your comment. You are not alone in your fear of sharing your illness with a potential partner.

 

However, I hope that you can also balance that fear with the knowledge that the CDC estimates almost 1 in 5 individuals live with a serious chronic illness. That means the odds are pretty good that your potential partner also has a health issue to work around, and if not now, than he probably will sometime in his life.

 

I wish you the best,

 

Tracy

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By Tracy Davenport, Ph.D., Health Guide— Last Modified: 06/18/12, First Published: 07/30/08