Hi Swimgirl, nice to see you again.
Technically, I think doctors would tell you that remission is a cessation of all IBD-related symptoms. And I know many people who actually have periods where they have no symptoms, then have a flare, then go into remission, etc.
I also know more IBDers like me who consider a flare to be when there is active diarrhea with more than 3-4 D BMs per day, fatigue, eczema, etc. Flare periods render me useless - to tired from bathroom calls, lack of appetite, and general exhaustion to really be useful and live life.
Remission for me is 1-3 non-D BMs per day, no eczema, energy at a decent level, and no joint pain. I can work, live life, and generally exist pretty well. In all honesty I don't think I've every had a fully symptom-free week since I was Dx'd more than 10 years ago, but then again I also have been Dx'd with IBS on top of the UC and I'm now gluten-free so I'm always having to think about what I can and can't eat. But, as long as I can function, eat, and not be in the bathroom with D most of the day I consider life good.
As with the disease, I kind of think remission is a person-to-person thing to.
Best,
Elizabeth
Thank you very much for such a quick responce. It is intersting to hear that remission isn't what I thought it was. I do have joint pain most of the time, am pretty exhausted, have pains, but can carry on a pretty normal day. Its uncomfortable, but I am not bound to the bathroom (usually). I guess I am just trying to gauge whether or not I should expect more reliefe, or if where I am at is as good as it is going to get. I am not too happy with being so limited by fatigue and having to deal with the pain. I am on Remicade, as well, and I get sick from that a lot, which in turn makes my colitis symptoms worse. I guess I will have to try some diet changes and maybe other homeopathic treatments, and see if I can find more relief. Maybe my expectations are just too high, and I need to learn to live with the symptoms I have...