My incontinence is a by-product of Multiple Sclerosis.  I HAD gone and hope to resume going to a renowned urogynegologist in NY, NY.  At first I was just using Serenity Pads & learning to do the Keigel exercises ('tho I didn't practice enough each day).  When it got worse, I went back to the same dotor & he wanted me to used 'inserted' catheters.  Two days later I broke my knee (falling on ice) and was unable to continue.  NOW, 2 1/2 years later (due to a disasterous surgery & non-recovery of my knee in 1/06, I was almost immoble); had arthoscopic surgery11/07(done by different surgeon who knows what he's doing & what recovery involves), followed by competent physical therapy and am much better (knee-wise); my knee will never function as well as it did.  

Anyway, I'm using Depend Extra Absorbency undergarments -- but will to go back to see what this doctor decides.  In the last several months I've awakened with urine in my "undergarment"; this is new.  Also, when I drink water I MUST be near a bathroom...so I can't even have a sip of water without feeling the urge to urinate.

To be continued....