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Thank You Pete ! - For calling a spade a spade ! I've had exactly the same thoughts
when I read these thinly veiled posts dealing with some "whack-job's" fantasy and titilation. Sorry, but that's the term I have to use to describe their kind -- it's exactly who the are.
Shame on you writers ! You know who you are. You make a mockery of us who have
a genuine medical problem; We DO NOT deal with it by apparent CHOICE as do you.
As Pete says, we do NOT enjoy it and do NOT want it. Most of all, we do not want YOU in our midst -- get it?
With previous older servers, this site became infected by such a crowd to the point of spam bordering on pornography and in some cases, hints at pedophilia.
Now, one by one, this crowd (probably a few repeat types using multiple identies)tends to find us again to spin their twisted form of self pleasure on us. Cheap thrill, eh? Anonymous and so fitting to your cowardly nature, especially when you keep
mentioning minor children, "forced diapering" (now there is a definite RED FLAG buzz word), childhood betwetting experiences in detail discussed ad nauseum, etc., etc.
In short order, your deviant pattern appears all too clear and we are on to you.
Yes, I've voiced the same concern in the past (privately to moderators; also on the open boards) so that some of the questionable posts were stricken from the record.
In many cases, the moderators erased these posts on their own after only a few hours, and we do appreciate their watchful eye.
Thanks for stepping up to the plate, Pete, with support for how the majority of us
feel. This is an important place for sharing and truth, not for fiction and a place to
'get off' on your peculiar perverted pleasure. Perpetrators: Take it elsewhere, hear?
We have a wonderful group of moderators and professional contributors here who set
the tone for what should be discussed on a forum like this. That should be a strong clue that the other types of off-topic fantasy input just don't belong here.
John.
John,
I have one word for what you've written: "BRAVO!"
As the community moderator of this site, I greatly appreciate support like yours and Pete's. I do keep a very "watchful eye" out for abusive posting, as you've said, but it sure helps to have you members at attention right along with me. Together we'll keep our site as helpful, supportive and respectful as it is. THANK YOU!
Best regards,
Maria
I've had incontinent difficulties all my life -- but I must say finding others on the internet who are willing to share and disclose what is a very hidden problem is refreshing. At first in the early days of the internet if I could find anything about something that is very difficult to discuss was an eye-opener, though I had no idea that people actually wanted to wear diapers simply for pleasure! I do find some of the fetish sites that review diapers are very useful -- the information about new products and the variety is stunning to say the least. I am always looking to find the best product at a fair price and that is discreet and easy to use. (I recently read a New York Times article, July 8th discussing the downside to ditropan... ) I've never taken meds for my incontinence, but prefer to wear diapers and have only recently accepted the fact that the need of diapers does not make me less of a person, it just means I am taking care of myself. I often thought if I lived in a natural setting urge and frequency wouldn't be that big of a deal -- just go the way of the wind and hold on to a tuft of tall grass. Interestingly enough, growing up as a kid in the country side I never really considered myself incontinent, if I need to go, I'd just pee in a ditch or a field or behind a bush or tree. It was only when I needed to travel or go to urban centers, school etc. did my difficulty really show itself. My parents often mentioned that maybe I should wear diapers as a kid, but it was said I think more as a threat than not...I heard myself saying "no", but I really wish I could have said "yes" without the fear of shame, guilt and stigma (didn't even know those words then) I read someone's else's post saying they probably would have done better in school if they had been able to wear a diaper. The idea of a diaper for me then growing up was a forbidden need and it is one that I had to make peace with. I definitely am more relaxed and less stressed wearing a diaper when out and about, and I now recognize it as an ordinary need. My husband really helped me to come to terms with this facet of my life. We are about to take a long trip soon and he even asks me in our planning, if I have enough diapers. okay enough rambling for now -- feels good to write this. Love out to all who struggle with this.
I agree with you, I too have had incontinent problems for some time now. I have to wear a diaper, have protection on anything I sit on or sleep in. Not any fun, but I have to make the best of it other wise I would have to see another doctor for a mental problem or maybe I am in denial and need to see a therapist. I hate incontinence, the expense, laundry, odor, rashes and if I had a choice I would chose not to have it. But, I don't have a choice and I have to deal with it. I have given up on worrying about disclosing my problem to friends, and family members. I used to do everything I can to hide my problem but all this did was made my life miserable. A few years ago I had some more medical problems that made me from having some moderate incontinent problems to totally urinary incontinent. At this point in my life it made it impossible for me to hide the problem to my close friends and family. So I gave up hiding the problem, what a relief that was. Now I have people I can talk too about the problem. I make jokes about my problem, this seams to help my friends and family to open up to me more and vise versa. Now, I don't hide my problem but at the same time I am discrete. If some one ask I tell them the truth. I was amazed when I opened up how many friends and family members already knew they just stayed quite about it since I was quite about it. Now dealing with people who don't understand the problem well I just don't deal with them at all so not a problem. Incontinence can be a very depressing thing to have so I all ways look up to positive people.
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Pete,
Well said. Thank you for this post. I'm sure it will be much appreciated by other community members as well. Keep writing!
Best to you,
Maria