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ISOLATED MYSELF FROM FRIENDS

By LESEGO Tuesday, October 14, 2008

I AM A 22 YEAR OLD LADY WHO IS EXPERIENCING INCONTINECE AND VERY MUCH AFRAID TO VISIT FRIENDS OR GO TO THE CAMPS THAT ARE COMING BY BECAUSE I DID NOT TELL ANYONE ABOUTMY PROBLEM. MY PROBLEM STARTED DURING MY CHILDHOOD BUT STOPED AT SOME TIME AND NOW IT HAS STARTED AGAIN AND I AM AFRAID IT CAN JEOPADISE MY RELATIONSHIP.HELP ME PLEASE.

10/14/08 5:24pm

I believe if you are honest & open with your friend. That they will support you & help you however they can. So don't isolate yourself. I have the support of my family & my friends. I'm serious about this. Going to camp can a little bit of challenge. How's your incontinence being treated. If your using diapers or protective underwear just pack enough for the trip. I always pack enough & generally some extras. As far as clothes go pack at least two extra outfits.  Don't be afraid to go out. if your have carry a messenger bag, a back pack or some type of bag to carry extras in. Both Clothes & protective products. I carry a back pack to work. I work in a school so my back pack blends in. I carry an extra work uniform, underclothes, Two or Three guards for men & 1 extra pair of protective underwear. I also carry a pack of baby wipe to wipe myself down with if I have change at all.

     Have good day

      Maintenanceman1     

10/15/08 2:18pm

Hello,

 

Welcome to our community. It's good that you've found us. There are many people here who deal with and can really relate to all that you're feeling and experiencing. Feel free to connect with other community members anytime -- we're here to help.

 

See these related posts:

  

How to Tell Others About Your Incontinence

http://www.healthcentral.com/incontinence/c/3328/9633/loved-wear-bed

 

When Others Find Out

http://www.healthcentral.com/incontinence/c/91252/28163/find

 

I hope this information is helpful. Keep us posted on how you're doing.

 

Best,

Maria

 

 

Anonymous
JEFFERY WOODARD
3/19/09 11:11am

IF PEOPLE ARE THAT SWALLOW TO DUMP YOU AS A FRIEND JUST BECAUSE YOU WET OR MESS YOURSELF IN THEIR PRESENTS , IT IS TIME FOR NEW FRIENDS

jeff4x4jimmy@yahoo.com  , I AM IN ALBUQUERQUE , NM WHERE ARE YOU?

Anonymous
JEFF
11/29/09 12:05pm

IT WOULD BE NICE IF WE COULD FIND A GROUP OF PEOPLE IN OUR AREA THAT HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM , AND WE CAN GO HIKING AND STUFF WITH PEOPLE WEAR DIAPERS OR JUST WET THEIR PANTS. SINCE THERE IS ALOT OF US OUT THERE WE NEED TO GET MORE POLITAL TOGETHER SO , I THINK THAT THE DISPOSIBLES ARE GETTING A LITTLE STIFF AND WALMART STOP CARRING MY MED DIAPERS NOW I HAVE TO SHOP ONLINE IT OK. BUT IT COMES OUT AT $.61 PER DIAPER VS $.47 A DIAPER AT WALMART

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By LESEGO— Last Modified: 12/19/10, First Published: 10/14/08