incontinence in dating

By jamie Sunday, July 08, 2007

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i was wondering how i would go about dating,because i'm in diapers 24/7 i had some bad dates .i would be on a date and i would have an accident meanig i wet my diaper i just could take care of it right then iwould have to wait until i got home.some how she found out that i was wearing diapers and broke it off also made fu of me.the other one i was up fornt with her,she seem to be ok with it until a week later and told me she just couldn't deal with it anymore. she told me that i would have to give up diapers or get trained in useing the toitel.i couldn't do that because my doctor didn't know what cause my incontince so my doctor avise me to wear diapers 24/7and take meds.along with it. so how can i find that someone spicale? ps.jamie

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Dave

7/10/07 3:29pm

Jamie,

Hey, how are you?

I just wanted to say to hang in there. High school is very hard. I am now 22, and at your age i did get made fun of and turned down by a few people. I am now dating a wonderful person that is great about my medical problems. My advice to you would be just wait a year or too, and look for mature sweet girls and will be able to look past it. If you need any more advice feel free to ask.

-dave

ulla

1/ 4/08 9:02pm

Jamie, I was looking at some dating websites and there was a site for people with disabilities. It is only like people that truly understand and have the compassion or patience. I think that anyway. Have you looked into that?

I just find it amazing that there isn't a cure?

ulla

1/ 4/08 9:06pm

That is great Dave that you met someone who understands. That gives me hope for my future. Thanks for writing.

Jason

4/29/08 5:27pm

I don't believe it's anything to be ashamed of. If I found out my date wore diapers, I might ask questions about it, but I would never make fun of them or make him/her feel bad about it. In fact, I'd help change his/her diaper if she needs help. I don't think anyone has a right or reason to make someone feel bad about a problem he/she has. Hang in there. You'll find someone you'll like. If he asks about the diapers, just tell the truth. If he's supportive and kind about it, then hopefully, he'll be the man you'll want to spend time with. If he redicules you, then just call it off. You don't deserve to be treated like that.

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