hi everyone!!!,sorry for being away i Ben busy working and had a problem with my back.my incontinence hasn't gotten any better.i have seen many urologists when past 2yrs. they haven't told me anything new.i try different meds but they didn't really help at all so i still wear diapers 24/7.that the only thing that helps me deal and feel security.i like to travel but money is one thing and other are bring diapers along with me.my other problem is i had to go er in past 2 months of sever headache witch i get alot,when i was there they gave me iv for my headache and they told me since i wear diapers a nurse will have too change your diapers i wasn't crazy about that but it's there policy so if i go to the hospital that means i have to get my diaper change it's not that bad.