I am curious how other incontinent adults select their protection, and whether the type of protection changes much over time. When I initially needed protection several years ago (for strong urge incontinence), I wore Depend and store brands. They aren't very absorbent, but I was concerned that people would be able to detect the protection under my clothes. Unfortunately, they are less than ideal for heavy wetting. As the years went on, I gravitated toward the most absorbent diapers (such as the Abena X Plus), which are bulky by comparison. I'm pretty sure nobody has detected them under casual (jeans) or work clothes (khakis).
So how does everyone select their level of protection?


Hello Craig,
You've asked the community a great question -- thank you. We'll wait for the helpful comments to come in. Keep writing and asking for feedback like this -- conversation stimulators are always good. There's always much to learn from each other.
Best,
Maria
Hi, I think I've tried virtually every solution for incontinence from indwelling caths to diapers. As a very mobile mid-live male, I prefer the McGuire urinal with a leg bag for long-term comfort and convenience. This solution solves the unpleasant "yanking" feeling of condom catheters with the occasional detachment disaster, not to mention the unpleasantness of the disgusting adhesive! Diapers just aren't a solution for travel, business life, etc. OK occasionally for overnight, if absorbent enough, but can't imagine life in these.
McGuire urinal with leg bag, properly fitted, provides long-term (3-4 days if necessary) protection, it is discreet, and completely washable and reusable. Leg bags last 3 weeks or so. Cost for this approach seems to be lowest of all choices.
Jim f.