i had an operation in 1994 , had a bladder bag on in the hospital when they took it out i could no longer hold my bladder too long urge incont , i have urge then i am wet by the time i make it to the restroom so back in diapers i go , i know people at work know , but i do not care anymore, i would just like to find that girlfriend that will be there for me and i for her

