I have been living with this most of my life i was potty trained before 1 yr of age but when i was about 6-7 years old i started to wet my self mostly during the day time hours and every now and then at night i am now 48 and have had to wear diapers since i left home at the age if 15 i did not come from a family that comunnicated well so i have always kept it to my self i thought for many years that it was stress related but after a recent interview with my doctor it turn out it urge the uncontrollable urge to go useally a complete emptying of my bladder and to top it all of i also suffer from diverticulightus causing me bowel incontinence i turly hope we as parent have become more understanding about these type of issues as i have had to hide this from my family it can cause deep psychological issues later in life Diapers may be embarrassing to use but not as bad a distroying a good suit or jeans i have personnaly found most folks i have shared this with are very understanding how ever children can be cruel so use your best judgement on whom you share this with and please for God Sake dont embaress your child by telling anyone that he knows about it with out respecting his/her feelings be happy that you can talk about it with out being judgemental thanks for reading hope it helps