THANKS TO ALL HERE FOR THEIR SUPPORT.
MY INCONT WAS FUNCTIONAL, DUE TO EMOTIONAL TRAUMA. IN THE MONTH 1/2 SINCE I REJOINED THIS FORUM, I WAS ABLE TO FINALLY BEAT MY INCONTINENCE: I WAS NO LONGER WETTING AT ALL, AND AFTER A FEW WEEKS OF EASY TOILET USE AND NO LEAKAGE, I EVEN STOPPED USING PADS "JUST IN CASE". EVEN THAT WAS A FEW WEEKS AGO.
WHAT ALLOWED ME TO FINALLY ESCAPE THIS BURDEN, PARADOXICALLY, WAS THE WILLINGNESS TO CALL MYSELF INCONTINENT. THAT LEVEL OF SELF ACCEPTANCE WAS MADE EASIER BY THE SUPPORT I RECEIVED HERE. SOMEHOW, SEEING MYSELF THAT WAY, AND FULLY ACCEPTING THAT, ALLOWED ME TO BE FREE OF IT. I DON'T FULLY UNDERSTAND WHY IT WORKED, BUT IT DID. I'VE BEEN DRY SINCE A DAY OR TWO AFTER MY LAST SHAREPOST, AND BEEN PAD-FREE FOR TWO WEEKS.
THANKS SO MUCH.
