While I have had extensive periods of enuresis since my teens, I am now in a place where my body seems to process stress through incontinence. It became a problem when I couldn't stop from uriniating in public. At first i had the sensation that I had to go, but couldn't stop it. Over time I have had less of a sensation that I even need to go and have suffered atrophy to a point where I am choosing diapers over surgeries and meds. I feel blessed to have an incredibly supportive wife and have only recently (after two years of this 24/7 incontinence) come to a peace with where I'm at in life.
Wearing diapers gives me a confidence to get through the day without worrying about leaks or embarrasing accidents, of which I've had my share. At times I still have to fight off bouts of shame with wearing and at times I'm convinced everyone can hear my diapers, but I know this is not the case.
For those out there suffering with finding the right combination of products to give you confidence, I highly recommend some form of onsie for adults. I have found these give support and help discretely keep diapers from creeping into view.
I hope I can be an encouragement to those in a similar place in life and know that without my wife, this would be far more difficult a lifestyle to embrace.
Blessings!
I BEEN IN DIAPERS SINCE 1994 24/7 ALSO , I STILL WORK AND I DO NOT CARE ANYMORE IF PEOPLE SEE I HAVE A DIAPER ON , COZ DIAPER ARE GETTING MORE EXPENSIVE , SOMETIME I DO NOT WEAR ONE ON MY DAYS OFF I JUST WET MY PANTS , I JUST DO NOT CARE ANYMORE WHAT PEOPLE THINK.
i understand where you are coming from i had to come to terms when my bed and sheets were getting wet every night. it took a while for my perants come to terms with it. they finaily realize there is no other way around it now. so i have to wear them every night.
And it is hard wearing them in public for example i was babysitty my young cousins ages 8 to 14 i was up walking the dog in the morining and still tired and was planing to go back to bed so of course i kept it on.
I could hear the diaper making the nocie daiper makes i have no clue if my yougest cousins heard it or saw it when it probely peak out of my pants that i was wearing that night. i am so fearful if someone will see it and will not understand why i got to have them.
even though i came to understand that i need them. i have no clue if my family will understand that
That makes no sense...at all. To say that you "just wet my pants" is to say that you can't even keep yourself clean. I don't get it. You soak your pants, what about your surroundings i.e. clothes, chairs, beds, floors.....
Please don't view this as an attack on you as that is NOT my intentions, but your comment simply makes zero sense.
Mike
NO WHAT I MEAN IS PEOPLE KNOW I AM WET COZ I DO NOT HAVE A DIAPER ON AND I AM ON MY WAY HOME TO CLEAN UP , I JUST WISH WE COULD GET MORE TAX HELP WITH THE DIAPERS COZ THEY ARE UP TO $9.74 AT WALMART AND SINCE I HAVE TO CHANGE TWO TIME A DAY SOMETIMES IT GETS A LITTLE EXPENSIVE
LAST NIGHT I WET THE BED BIG TIME GOOD THING I BOUGHT A PAD FOR UNDER ME SO THAT IS ALL THE GETS WET COZ , MY DIAPER LEAK BIG TIME , I AM A VERY HEAVY WETTER , I TRIED TO LIMIT MY FLUIDS BUT THEN I COUGH MY HEAD OFF COZ IT IS SO DRY HERE IN ALBUQUERQUE. SO I HAVE A DRINK BY MY BED AND IF I START COUGHING I DRINK IT AND IN THE MORNING I AM WET( REALLY IT IS NIGHT TIME FOR YOU COZ I WORK 11- 8
Sorry man, but I think that I am going to have to agree with the other people... If you think two diapers a day is a lot, then you most likely don't wear out of incontinence and are some sort of fetishist. I am fully incontinent and use well over that, more like 8-10, just though I would point it out to all.... Don't feed the Troll!
COZ OF THE OPERATION I DO NEED THEM , BUT THEY GETTING EXPENSIVE SO I DO NOT ALWAY USE THEM COZ I CAN NOT GET THEM FREE LIKE PEOPLE ON MEDICARE I AM NOT ON THAT SO I HAVE TO PICK IT UP MYSELF. AND I ONLY MAKE $13. AN HOUR , SO $.50 A DIAPER ADDS UP