I find Depends Super Absorbent underwear to work best for me.

Stay away from store brand disposables.Every store brand I have tried,leaked.

Often people think their only choices in absorbent products are what they see on store shelves. While some of these products can be great, it's important to know that there are other brands that are often only available from companies that provide medical supplies, or specifically provide incontinence products. You can look for these companies online, and request samples from them so that you can try out some different brands.

tranqulity overnight is the best  i use them and thay can handel it     or you can try abera form full fitted pull ons thay say that thare bulky but will hold wut ever u put in rthem

I use Depends.

I have read a lot of posts saying they are not dependable protection,but I wear the ones that say Super Absorbency.

Give them a try.I wear them to bed at night and have had no problems as I did with the regular style called Extra Absorbent.

They do not make noise when you walk and seem to be invisible under my pants.

You could try esternal catheters or the McGuire urinal. I use both and don't have to worry about absorbancy!