There are many different treatments available for incontinence, but they don't all work on everyone. Some people experience incontinence because of a problem with the nerves, in which case a medication may help. Other people experience incontinence because of a problem with the sphincter muscle, in which case exercises may help, but medicine will probably do nothing. These are just two quick examples. Try to find a urologist who will work with you to identify the cause of your leakage, and look for an appropriate treatment.