Hey everyone I'm brand new here and im 23 years old. I've been dealing with Urge incontinence and frequently of needing to use the restroom at least once a hour usually. With some days going over 12 times and definitely going more then 8 times a day. Saw a urologist and had test run. Everything seems normal from my kidneys and flow test. I did take Vesicare for three weeks with constipation daily and decided that medication wasn't going to work. I've come to the point in which at times even at home that Im finding it hard to make to the restroom. Its not that I can't make it most of the time, but I feel as if I've lost control of my bladder at times with voiding with no warning or control to stop it. Most of the time Its small amount but enough to have to change my pants or shorts though out the daytime, which has become very annoying. I've been debating on starting to wearing protection even at home even though I want to tell my self I don't need to. I do wear diapers at times but I don't like to. Pull ups and pads seem to leak and i just always worry with them. The other thing that has me worried is that a couple of months ago I had a few fecal accidents once again with out any warning or needing to go. I never did make a appointment for that because it seemed to go aways. Anyways I saw my urologist and the last time I saw him he has asked were I had gotten those pampers from. I was shocked and humiliated and never did go back and I don't plan to. Please can someone help me feel not so alone with this. -Thanks for your time Sean