• lalala12345 lalala12345
    July 13, 2010
    I am a teenager and I want to wear diapers, but I don't want to tell my parents. what do I do?
    lalala12345 lalala12345
    July 13, 2010

    Okay, well, I am 13 and I want to wear diapers. I don't want to tell my parents though. I don't know how I can wear them, but hide it from my parents. Should I start wetting my bed on purpose so I have a reason to wear them? Or should I just tell my parents. I'm scared my parents will think I need help or something and take me to a therapist. So, wht should I do?. Please help!

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  • Geoffrey August 20, 2012
    Geoffrey
    August 20, 2012
    I wet the bed for three nights then just said I was tired of being soaked. It worked and they offered me diapers. I am wearing them to bed for the first night now. READ MORE
  • steve jenkinson July 13, 2010
    steve jenkinson
    July 13, 2010

    Ok well this is not an easy question to answer you say you want to start to wear diapers I take it that you don't have a wetting problem. Don't think I am judging you I am not I know there are people that wear diapers for other reasons apart from incontinence such as comfort and security and then there are people that wear them for long jorneys,going to the cinima and more. There are also those that wear diapers because they have a fetish and I think you may be in this catorgrie.I would think that you might be barking up the wrong tree wetting your bed you may create more problems for your self than you would like to handle.I think that if your Mum is the type of person that will sit down and listen then take her to one side and talk to her about it if she is the caring mother that listens and loves you and will help you, talk to her and see what she says.

    If I am right and you do have a fetish for diapers you will not beat it, it will be there all the time until you do some thing about it,it will make you unhappy it will eat at you until you make the first step and buy some diapers but I still think no matter how hard it will be you need to get your mothers blessing first.I have done a lot of reserch on the internet about such things and belive me I am right.

    Now the other thing is wearing diapers all the time is not easy first there is the cost then there is the discomfort when you are sore and they do make you sore some times I know I wear them 24/7 and they can be a real pain sometimes.

    I have to wear diapers because I have been incotinent for some years now, they are not what I would wear out of choice.

    Please let me know what you think about my message and if you are going to talk to your mother.One other thought that might be of some help when you talk to her and that is you could do some reserch on infantism on the internet or even show her this message.

    Best of luck

    Steve

     

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    • billy1996
      February 15, 2011
      billy1996
      February 15, 2011

      ok im 14 gonna be turning 15 i have a bed wetting problem and i need help i have my friend buy thm how should i tell my mom i wet the bed and need her to understand  she wont understand i need help give me advices to help me not be so nervouse to ttell my mom and  what kind of diapers  or pull ups should i wear email me back                         monkey22796@aol.com

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    • Steve havery wanna be 13year old
      August 20, 2014
      U should tell yo mom if it that bad and your tired of it she well most likely ofther u diapers u well feel much better READ MORE
  • Benny1995 July 14, 2010
    Benny1995
    July 14, 2010

    lots of people that  that do is  go buy them and  if your mom dad is nothome then hide ist some where  i have a friends  that like to wear them and he go buy them and hide its in his room  so his mom and dad do not knwo    

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  • becca17215 October 26, 2015
    becca17215
    October 26, 2015
    Can you tell me why? I have a 14 year old boy who buys diapers on the Internet and secretly wears them, soils them and puts the dirty ones in his drawers. What do I say to him? READ MORE
    • Andrew23
      February 10, 2016
      Andrew23
      February 10, 2016

      Hey Becca, my name is Andrew. I am 28 years old and from NJ. I have struggled with the desire to wear diapers my whole life. My parents caught me stealing diapers when I was very young and were not very understanding. I would love to talk to you about your journey with your son if you like.

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  • I do it too December 13, 2014
    I do it too
    December 13, 2014
    i am 13 i started wearing diapers again when i was 12 i walked to the store and bought them i stuffed them into my backpack and nobody knows after 15 months of it and i wear them to school i wear the goodnites by the way READ MORE
  • Diaper Boy April 22, 2012
    Diaper Boy
    April 22, 2012
    That's so weird. I'm also 13 and I wear diapers, but I don't tell my mom. READ MORE
  • Diaper Boy April 21, 2012
    Diaper Boy
    April 21, 2012

    Yes start wetting your bed, that's what I do.

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  • diperninja November 29, 2010
    diperninja
    November 29, 2010

       i am the same as you i started wetting the bed on perposs so my parents should buy them so that would be my edvice to you

     

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    • i love diapers alot
      December 10, 2010
      i love diapers alot
      December 10, 2010

       hi i love diapers i mean like crazy but  idont wear them. what do i do about it i mean do i tell my therapist or my grandparents i mean i need some i mma little confused on what to do about it comments and answers {serious ones } are greatly appreicated

       

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    • steve jenkinson
      February 16, 2011
      steve jenkinson
      February 16, 2011

      Hi you say you love diapers and don't wear them so how do you know you love them I think you mean you would love to wear diapers well that is fine. You say should I talk to my therapist well I will tell you what he/she will say they will say if that is what you wat then go ahead and wear diapers. As for your Granparents well that might be another thing if they really love you and are understanding then you might sway them around but it is going to take some fancy talking on your part. it sounds to me as though you have a fetish for diapers if so you will not beat it if you try fighting it you will loose every time just accept it for what it is and enjoy it. are you male or female and what age are you. Now I might be guessing wrong here but here we go you mention your granparents are they your gardians and where are your parents? I am thinking you live with your granparents and some thing has happened to your parents a few years ago the reason I say this is because I think you have something called infantism and this is some times bought on by a traumatic insident in your early years. Please let me know if i am right and I will help you as much as I can.

      Steve 

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  • Beccybloy September 27, 2015
    Beccybloy
    September 27, 2015
    That is the same with me because recently I have felt like I have wanted to wear diapers I don't know if I should tell my mum but I think it would be better tell parents from what I have read on the internet I am debating whether to tell my mum tommorow. I would suggest talking about something and then randomly just keep saying I want to start wearing diapers again really quickly then going straight back to where left of from and keep doing that until she stops you and asks what you said or did you say what I think you said and then you could say well if you heard me say "I want to wear diapers again" then yh it is But parents won't judge you cause they are your parents they are there for if you need to tell them something really important hope this has helped. READ MORE
  • maxwell_05 May 07, 2016
    maxwell_05
    May 07, 2016
    Just tell them they will understand i am 33 ever since grade 7 i still wanted to wear them but had to get the money to by my own READ MORE
  • muscle4life16 March 11, 2016
    muscle4life16
    March 11, 2016
    I actually can 100% relate with your circumstances. Ever since I was in elementary school, I had a desire to wear a diaper, but of course finding one was the problem for me. I would sometimes get lucky when my mom took me over to someones' house where the kid there was wearing pullups, and in that instance, I'd snatch one quick, run to the bathroom, and put it on, use it, then dispose of it as cleverly as I could. Or, I'd find the largest size diaper at church in the nursery/ daycare room. // But you're likely hoping for better advice than that. You could get samples from different sites that offer a diaper sample, and just find an address to send it to other than your own, if indeed you can could find a different address to send it to, so your parents dont find out. You could take a public bus to a nearby store and buy a pack of diapers----it's actually an adrenaline rush. I speak from experience. I'd first scope the store to see if anyone there knew me, and then of course I always hoped that there were older ladies at the checkout, as they're the easiest and normally don't give you any * looks*.........You'll want to bring your backpack to the store, but be sure some school books are in there so it looks like you're just on your way back from school....An empty bag raises suspicion to security camera operators & store associates. Dont wear sunglasses in the store....this also would bring attention to you......Loss-prevention wise........ Goodnites were always my favorite diaper I bought, when I got clever enough to buy them myself. READ MORE
  • Cooldude21 March 11, 2016
    Cooldude21
    March 11, 2016
    Well I started wearing diapers again when I moved to my own place and it feels great no one knows I wear them bc I don't say anything READ MORE
  • Caleb February 12, 2016
    Caleb
    February 12, 2016
    same story for me! READ MORE
  • Katie gorm September 13, 2015
    Katie gorm
    September 13, 2015
    I have the same problem i don't know what I should do! READ MORE
  • Ashleismith78 July 15, 2015
    Ashleismith78
    July 15, 2015
    Just wear them and if your parents find out just tell them you have been having accidents and you where scared that they would yell at you READ MORE
  • fed
    fed
    April 18, 2015
    fed
    fed
    April 18, 2015
    Look im 30 yrs old and I liked diapers all my childhood I use wet the bed I wouldn't wet the bed coz that want I need and it coz me to have diapers rash what I would do is buy some from the shop and let your old man and your mum to see en and the end of the day if they do send u to see a therapist it might not be a bad thing coz he will might just tell Em to put u in the diapers. But make sure it want u coz Im wear diapers and it not fun at my time I life and it plaY's on your mind so in the end diapers is all u will thing about , I'm not saying to wear diapers coz I'm 30 yrs old and I can't be see telling u put diapers on . But saying all that I think u should tell your mum and let her tell your dad but u have nothing to be ashamed of, u can't help this feeling, just think like Im 30 yrs old and i waer diapers ,at least u r only 13 Good luck and I would wait for the answer for this website expects before going to your mam good luck READ MORE
  • Wet
    Wet
    November 29, 2014
    Wet
    Wet
    November 29, 2014
    I begged as a little kid around 8-9 to wear diapers for my bedwetting. I was allowed, could change my own, and could let kids my age changd me that I was friends with. Loved it. I had some day settings and just decided to roll with it when I was near teens. I just kept wearing diapers while they were there. Sometimes in public, but usually just at home. I was lucky to just have a weak bladder at times I guess READ MORE
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