After arousal and/or orgasm with no penetration, I get severe abdominal pain and very frequent urination. Sometimes the symptoms are so severe that I end up at the emergency room. These symptoms last from one day to one week, during which time sex or arousal is off limits. What are the possible causes?
I am not a doctor and can't diagnose you, bu if the pain is down low, around your pubic bone, but not in your perineum, I wonder if you are having bladder spasms. Although I am a male, I tend to have the same problem with sex. Perhaps you should schedule a visit with your gynecologist. See the following Internet sources: http://www.ic-network.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-25072.html
Please let us know what you find out. I'm sure it could help others.
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