I have tried everything from Depends, Attends HDIS brand to Molicare and Abena. And everything in between. And this has been over a course of just a year. I have found that the Abena D3, if I remember right, is a very very very good product. They are very absorbent, except when I have an accident while sleeping on my side, I have not found a diaper that can help with that one. The D3 does not have the elastic rear waist band, but the money spent for their other type is not worth it. As previously stated XP Medical is great. They have the best price and they will answer any questions you have, talk to Gary. Also they will send samples especially if you purchase you might be able to get others free.   Molicare is another good diaper. Cheapchux is another place to get these diapers from.   Hope this helps.