I would sit her down and tell her to stop it and ask her why she is doing this. listen to what she has to say and tell her that day care rules will apply if she pulls this at daycare. If she chooses to wet or mess at daycare, they will choose to put her in diapers. tell her that she will be put in diapers at daycare if she does this again and then do it. The same rules can apply at home to reinforce that this is not positive behavior. Time outs may be more effective as diapers for punishment may not be the answer, communication is number one.
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