My son was born over 15 years ago.  during the entire pregnancy(9 months) i carried him very low. i was in labor for over 30 hours once my water broke. i wasn't allowed to go to the bathroom during the entire labor. after being released from the hospital, i started having problems with my bladder. i couldn't: lift, bend, laugh, cry, walk, run, stand, sit, etc. without leaving a puddle behind. as soon as i noticed, it was too late. back then i could notice the urine leaking. about 10 years ago on a normal ob-gyn well visit the doctor told me i would need surgery. i would need a net to lift my bladder back into its normal place. the county only paid for well visits.  any problems and you were on your own. 

i am post mentapausal.  i haven't had my period in almost 2 years since i had an endometrial balloon ablation. now it has gotten worse. i had to leave my job due to the continuous urine flow. before i even started working, i was soaked to my feet. i get rashes due to the constant wetness. i have tried female pads and adult diapers. in less than 10 minutes in i am soaked to my feet and beyond. kegel exercises haven't worked. i used to be able sense when i was leaking. now the flow i continuous.i bleed occassionally and after sex. i wake in a pool of urine. it is hard for me to have an orgasm now. i have lower pelvic pain continuously.