Just how long incontinence is considered "normal" during the healing phase can differ from doctor to doctor, but many will allow up to a year for bladder control to be fully regained following a prostatectomy. However, I would still make sure that any incontinence is mentioned at follow-up appointments. Even if the doctor says it's still normal at this phase, he or she may be able to recommend some coping and management techniques. Also, it is very important that any post-prostatectomy patient be very vigilant about doing his pelvic floor exercises (sometimes called Kegels). Your doctor might be able to refer you to a physical therapist or biofeedback technician who specializes in pelvic floor exercises to make the most of your recovery period.