Hello,
You may want to try Kegel exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles to better manage your incontinence. See:
Urination Urgency: Will Kegels Help?
http://www.healthcentral.com/incontinence/c/52/10392/urgency-kegels
Pelvic Strength, Down to the Core
http://www.healthcentral.com/incontinence/c/76594/27982/strength-core
Pelvic Floor Exercises Effective for Men
http://www.healthcentral.com/erectile-dysfunction/c/29454/28027/floor
Take the Pressure Off
http://www.healthcentral.com/incontinence/c/71981/27265/pressure
Best of luck,
MG