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Monday, September 22, 2008 Bettye Ison asks

Q: Should you put overnites, etc on a 5 and 6 year old who does not wet every night, but quite often?

My 5 year old and 6 year old granddaughters wet the bed 2-3 nights a week.  The parents don't allow them to drink a lot at night and if they are picked up and taken to the bathroom in the middle of the night, they usually do not wet.  Should they be forced to wear goodnites, etc. or not??  I don't want to do anything that will cause them to regress to wetting all the time.  They were potty trained early and did really good for a long time, but now that they are older they wet more often??  When they stay with me, I always get them up around 3 a.m. and have them go to the bathroom right before bedtime (around 8:30).

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9/23/08 12:33pm

It's so kind and loving of you to be so concerned for your granddaughters. Consistency is very important with any kind of incontinence issues, so it's probably best when they stay over with you to continue doing the same routine and practices that they are accustomed to at home.

 

Using absorbent products on children who wet the bed is a very controversial topic - some people feel that it makes the children feel like babies, while others feel that it helps the children feel in better control of the situation. Either way, it's important to remember that children don't wet the bed to be naughty. It is something their body does for any number of reasons. Quite often it is because the body isn't producing enough of a specific hormone (called vasopressin) at night that is designed to help concentrate urine while you sleep.

 

Some children also experience bedwetting due to stress, or because they are very heavy sleepers, and it is thought that there is a genetic component as well (meaning that children will be more likely to wet the bed if their parents or grandparents did, too).

 

Also, keep in mind that most children grow out of bedwetting by age five or six, so it isn't at all unusual that they are still wetting the bed at this age or slightly past this age.

 

Back to that issue of wearing products - it's my personal opinion that the best course of action is to have an open and honest conversation with the children. Explain that their body is still growing up, and that means that they still wet the bed at night. Explain that you realize this isn't their fault, but you want to help them to be as comfortable as possible. Then ask the kids how they'd like to handle it - getting up at night, an alarm that wakes them up on their own at night, a special bedwetting alarm that might train them to eventually wake up before they have to urinate, wearing an absorbent product, or any combination of these therapies.

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5/ 8/09 2:05am

My sons recently turned 6 and 4 and are both nightly bedwetters. Both are potty trained. We just use regular diapers right now but will probably put them in pullups or goodnites pretty soon and let them handle the problem and dress themselves. At 5 or 6 I don't think putting your granddaughters into goodnites will bother them much, a positive introduction to the diapers will keep their opinion of them good.

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