Many man experience temporary incontinence following prostate surgery, but at a year and nine months out, you might want to start preparing for the incontinence to be more permanent. The good news is that there are treatment options. Most doctors start by recommending pelvic floor exercises, which you can learn through physical therapy or biofeedback. If that doesn't give you the results you are looking for, you might look into surgery. There is a sling surgery that lifts up the urethra to give you better bladder support and control, and there is also a surgery that implants an artificial urinary sphincter.   Good luck!