Hi, Sandy,

I am so sorry that you're having to go through this. I also have been relatively healthy all my life, so I can only imagine how overwhelming this health situation can be.

I'm not a medical doctor so I'll come at your question from the perspective of a patient and as someone who has helped a loved one battle a disease. First of all, I'd suggest that you get back in touch with the oncologist to get the names of the three medications that are being recommended. Then get in touch with your primary care physician and/or gynecologist to see what they know about these medications; this will help you, in effect, to get a second (and possibly third) opinion from your health care team that knows you and your situation. I would do this regularly since in my experience, doctors tend to work in isolation on their speciality and don't communiate with other doctors. I also would encourage you to start including a family member or friend in your doctor's visits so they can help you remember what happens and what's recommended. I've been that person for both of my parents and have found that having two sets of ears (and eyes) are imperative, especially during stressful visits. Also, take a notepad or a tape recorder to each visit so you can have all of the information recorded. This will enable you to use this information to do the research so that you can make informed decisions and begin to take back control of your own health.

Hang in there and keep us posted! And please take care!!

Dorian