I am not sure where you are located but I am in New York City and the name of my very open minded, progressive and life saving doctor is Dr. Michael Aziz. His number is (212) 906-9111. He has also just written a book called "The Perfect Ten" which is about hormone balance and weight control. I am sure if you do a google search on him you will find tons of info. If you are not near NYC you can find a like minded doctor by doing the following web search. The key words are "anti aging and integrative." If a doctor has his or her name atatched to those phrases chances are they are open to hormone testing and replacement. You may have to be diligent but they're out there. In what city do you live? I have a few books with physician listings in the back and I can look those up and pass that info on to you if you wish.
I know how you are suffering. I was there for so long without help and it's a horrible place to be. You are not alone and there is help. Just let me know what else you need.