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Migraine's strongest impact on YOUR life?

By Teri Robert, Health Guide Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Someone once asked my about the impact of Migraine disease on my life -- what was the worst thing about it? An interesting question, an insightful question.  Before I share my answer with you, I'm curious to see how you'd answer the question. So, I've put together a poll so we ca...
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12/18/07 6:03pm

For me it's definitely the depression and disability.  Pain is fading into more of an irritant these days.

 

Having my own biology working against me and being taken on and off meds so often has been really hard.  I've had a significant amount of depression in the last year that goes along with the migraines that I just can't shake.  I can't use antidepressants and pushing Lamictal higher isn't an option, so I'm just stuck with tolerating it.  My hope is that when the magical preventative is found, the depression will lift on its own as well.  I have a really hard time dealing with chronic migraines and a mood disorder because they've been feeding into each other so much.  I can't win.

 

The disability is really hard as well and helps fuel the depression.  Constant pain keeps my concentration and memory off balance, which makes it very difficult for me to do my work and be a student.  Some days are just impossible to function at all.  I feel so behind in everything, and if it weren't for disability accomodations, I'd have to drop out.  Nothing would crush my soul more than that.

12/18/07 6:39pm
I chose other, because for me it's the brain-fuzzing cognitive stuff, usually with a profound fatigue along for the ride.  While it's usually not bad enough that I'd call it disabling, it is interfering.  I don't like it one bit when I can't seem to think or process things clearly, which is vital to us teacher people. 
12/18/07 6:47pm
Other than the terrible pain, that is sometimes scary, thinking I may have a stroke. Let's see.....It controls my life! I can't work anymore. Why they got worse, I have no clue. Doctors don't know. I can't do things the way I use to. I've been told it's "spiritual." I don't know. I'm trying to learn more about that with a minister I know. But somehow, I think it all goes back to genetics. My mother's side of the family there is 3 sisters and my mother, and her father suffered from migraines. I just pray every day that something will come my way to help. The worst thing about migraines to me is.......I can't enjoy my friends and family, and activities the way I want to. I won't give up hope.....though some days it is hard.
12/18/07 9:23pm

The only bright side of migraine if I may say so is; Realizing how good life is when it passes and it always does.

Even if I have chronic pain, which never pass, the feeling of the end of migraine is something to be grateful for.  

12/19/07 8:39am

Teri, I keep coming back to this poll to see where the numbers are rising.  Not surprising to see that they all seem, so far, to rise under not being able to do everday things.

 

Thank God for those in my life who are understanding.  As for those who don't understand, oh well, I try to remain patient with their lack of knowledge.  

 

I hate the pain but not as much as I hate the fact that while I feel great today I don't know what tomorrow will bring and making plans and then cancelling them is frustrating.

 

That is where determination comes into play.  I am already a very determined person, stubborn, thick headed, etc.  But, my unusual increase in my migraines over the last few years and having to quit my job has caused me to become more determined to educate those around me, myself and anyone who will give me their ear.

 

I am also very determined to keep pursuing the right treatment for me.  I know it is out there just waiting for me to find it.

12/19/07 8:29pm

I mean, if I had to pick one. I guess it would be this one. I hate having cancel plans, or even worse, go through with them feeling horrible.

 

As a close second though I would say what it's done to my intimate relationship with my DH - not to get TOO personal but all the medications have to totally kill the 'ol drive?

 

Looking forward to hearing your responce too!!! Big Grin

Nancy Harris Bonk, Health Guide
12/21/07 10:20am
Being in pain for so long, I  kind of just deal with it. The biggest one for me is how it has impacted my relationship with my children and  family. Since my  fall, eleven years ago, I'm not the same person. They didn't bargain for that, and neither did I.
Nancy Harris Bonk, Health Guide
12/21/07 10:21am

I knew I forgot to add another one!

 

If I hadn't fallen I wouldn't be able to work with all you wonderful people. There is my positive spin on the deal!!

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By Teri Robert, Health Guide— Last Modified: 09/06/11, First Published: 12/18/07