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all I wanted was a hug!

By femmefatale Thursday, June 21, 2007

I had to leave work early yet again due to a migraine.  I have been having migraines 5-6 days a week.  I cried all afternoon, feeling so helpless and frustrated.  I couldn't wait for my boyfriend to come home so that I could have a hug.  He is usually very supportive and good at making me laugh.  I don't know what was going on but he didn't want to hug me, which made me upset.  I felt so awful and I was too sick to go get food (there wasn't much to eat in the house that would make a meal) I asked him to get me something.  He left abruptly without saying a word and came backa few minutes later, thrusting food at me, not saying a word.  He seemed angry.  Something wasn't right. 

It is hard not to take it personally.  Is he mad at me or at my migraines?  Sick of putting up with me?  Simply having a bad day?  He seems better now, but still seems like he doesn't want to touch me.  It is bothering me so much.  I am angry at myself and at him as well. 

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By femmefatale— Last Modified: 09/04/10, First Published: 06/21/07