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pattiw

pattiw

Sat, November 03, 2007

I'm hoping to find some support and further insight into what is a total nightmare! I feel like I'm losing my mind and my life and marriage are falling apart.

 

I had what I thought was a minor whiplash injury 2 1/2 years ago and have had severe headaches with dizziness and nausea almost every day since. Then at just over the 2 year mark, I started having intermittant vision problems and numbness and tingling in my arms and legs. I feel horrible most days - mornings are usually the worst and I feel somewhat better by late afternoon or early evening. But if I function much I pay a price with worsened symptoms for sometimes days afterwards. I feel like I have the flu all the time with muscle aches throughout my body. Lying down to go to sleep at night is hell.

 

I have seen more drs/health care gurus than I can count and was recently given a diagnosis of BAM (Basilar Artery Migraine) or Hemiplegic Migraine by a neurologist. I'm not completely convinced he's right and some of what he's said is contradicted by what I've researched online. He put me through the ringer on a fast track of 3 different meds in a 2 week period - 1st Topamax, which dramatically increased every sypmtom, then Depakote - which I also had problems with. FInally, Propranolol which also seemed to worsen things. I can't help but wonder if going from one med to the nest with just 2 days break between caused the intolerance. Then he looked at me like I was the world biggest hypochondriac and referred me to a psychiatrist to try Tricyclic Antidepressants as the 4th and final option for treatment of his diagnosis.

 

At this point, a friendly voice would be nice as I feel trapped in a very lonely nightmare. Am I crazy? Is the problem 'all in my head'? People treat me like I'm a big baby and emotional weakling when I can't function like a normal person. I would appreciate any comments  or insight. Also,I need to find a good migraine/headache specialist in the Phoenix area - soon. Any suggestions?

 

PS - I just read jennyc's postings and cried. I'm so happy for you.

 

pattiw

 

 

11/ 3/07 11:50pm

Hello, and welcome to MyMigraineConnection!

 

Patti,

 

You really do need to do what Jenny did and get yourself to an actual Migraine specialist. Three meds in two weeks? That didn't give any of them a chance to work OR see if the side effects would stop. They often do as your body adjusts.

 

Also, which is it -- Basilar-TYPE Migraine or Hemiplegic? Someone needs to give you aproper diagnosis.

 

You might find our list in of Patient Recommended Migraine and Headache Specialists helpful in finding a specialist.

 

No, you're not crazy. You just haven't seen the right doctor yet. As for this one, fire his sorry butt and move on!

 

Will you do me a favor, please? Read this article as a little gift and pep talk from me to you -- Patients As Consumers - Managing Healthcare and the Healthcare Team.

 

Thank you for creating a SharePost. SharePosts are a form of blogging, and there are many things you can do with them. You can share an experience, suggest something that's helped you, use SharePosts as a Migraine and headache journal, and many other things.

We also have a discussion forum that you may want to check out. Especially if you have questions or are looking for information, you may find the interaction on the forum to be quite helpful. To get to the forum, just look for the orange box marked "Manage" and click on the Migraine Forums link. Because our forums are maintained by a third party, you'll need to register for the forum. You can use the same information you used to create your community log-in if you like. If you want to go directly to the forum, you can click HERE.

Along with your personal "My Home" page and the discussion forum, you'll find links to a great deal of helpful information on the main page of our site, http://www.MyMigraineConnection.com.

If you have any questions, please feel free to post them to the forum or send me a message through my profile.

Welcome again,
Teri Robert
MyMigraineConnection.com Lead Expert
11/ 4/07 8:41pm

Hi Patty!

 

Please take Teri's words to heart--you're NOT crazy!  You just haven't found the right doctor yet!  There are specialists out there who are familiar with migraine and know how to treat patients like you PROPERLY!  The doctor you have now is just not the right one for you!!

 

You've read my posts, so you know my story.  With encouragement from Teri and my other friends here and at the forum, I found the strength to leave my doctor and move on to a new, more knowledgeable specialist.  I was having daily, VERY debilitating migraines!  As you read, I just had NINE migraine free days! 

 

This can happen for you, too.  Please don't give up!  Please look at the list of patient recommended specialists and find one to switch to.  There is someone out there who can help you--you've just got to find him/her!

 

I'll be thinking of you and praying for you!

 

Oh--think about coming to talk with us at the forum (Teri gave you the link).  I've learned SOOOO much there!  The forum is FULL of wonderful, supportive people with lots of information to share!!

 

Heartjenny

11/ 6/07 7:46am

Hi Patti!

You are not losing your mind! Although I understand how you feel. I was in a wreck 3 years ago and have several of the same problems you described. 3 surgeries, 8 rounds of physical therapy, more meds than I can count and Dr's appointments out the back side and I still have problems. Don't give up! There is help out there.

As far as hubby goes have him to read the info about migraines. Try to edcuate him. It helps a little. But keep in mind it is hard for people to understand what they cannot see or have never experianced themselves.

As wonderful as my hubby is there are times when I have to get in his face and say wait a minute buster...let me tell you what I have been dealing with............

 Meanwhile... I will keep you in my prayers.

Take care.

Anita

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