Since I am in between appointments with my Migraine specialist (I currently go once every three months), I am doing a bit of reflecting on just how am I doing? I get asked that question a lot. Just today, someone asked me, "how are your headaches?" Someone else asked me today, "how is your head doing?" It is so hard for me to answer these questions. I mean I could literally take 10 minutes to answer the question, but they really don't want to know all that. I usually decide how to answer the question based on how genuinely interested the person is. I know by now which ones really want to know and which ones are just making conversation. The ones that truly care and want to know get a much more detailed answer than the latter ones. They get very short answers.
So tonight, I am searching my heart and asking myself, "How am I doing?" I wrote about my last appointment with my Migraine specialist in my SharePost entitled "My Migraine Journey: Fourth Specialist Visit." I would like to share with you how I think I am doing.
Although my next appointment with my Migraine specialist isn't until the end of next month, I've already started my list of questions and my notes that I want to discuss with my doctor at the appointment. Here's what I have so far.
- I learned pretty quickly that the Pennsaid that she gave me doesn't help with my neck pain, so I will tell her that.
- I wanted to ask her about taking something to help me sleep. I decided instead of waiting until my next appointment that I would call and ask her about this. My chiropractor had suggested a homeopathic drug so I called her office and left a message for her asking about it. Her response to that question was absolutely not. I also asked her in that message about Melatonin. She said I could take it but that when I came back to her she would take me off of it. Something about it disrupts the sleep pattern. I didn't understand the explanation but if she was going to take me off of it anyway, I didn't see the point in trying it the Melatonin. And since I respect her opinion the suggestion from my chiropractor went out the window as well.
- I also wrote down to ask her about my neck pain again. I keep wondering if there are more tests that could be done to check out my neck or is all of the discomfort / pain from the Migraine itself. It probably is just from the Migraine based on what I have read, but I will probably ask her anyway.
Now would be a good time to point out that I am not an expert when it comes to Migraines. I may be an expert Migraine patient but that's about it. I am just here trying to share my story in hopes that someone else who is struggling can learn something helpful and hopefully be encouraged.
So back to how I am doing. Overall, I really think I am better. My mind is much clearer which I am thrilled about!!! I don't know if it is because the Migraines are less intense or it is because we increased my Celexa from 10 mg to 20 mg / day. But I am thrilled to be thinking more clearly more often. A friend of mine asked if it could be because I am taking less medication.


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I'm glad to hear you're at least on the road to getting better, if not getting much better. I personally consider any improvement to be a big step.
As for your next appointment, since you experience neck pain and sleep problems, maybe ask your doc about Zanaflex. It's a muscle relaxant often prescribed for sleep problems (off-label). Since you have neck issues too, might be something worth trying out.
That's weird about the melatonin messing up your sleep. It's helped mine so much. But admittedly, it won't do anything for you if you don't have a melatonin imblance, which I did. A major one. But I'd definately trust your doc's opinion on that.
I'm glad to hear your head has cleared up too. I'm sure a lot of that is not being in so much pain. I know the more pain I'm in the more useless mentally I become. Plus, if I have a lot of migraines back to back, the cognitive impairment seems to hang around.
Good luck and I can't wait to read about your next appt!
-Kelly
Missy -
I enjoyed reading your post. I can totally relate to many things you said.
I wanted to ask you about/comment on something though. Your doctor has told you not to take the abortive unless the pain gets to a 6 or 7? One of the things my migraine specialist has reiterated over and over is that it's really important to take the abortive early, before the pain gets too severe. If you wait too long, it's too late for the abortive to be able to help basically. It's certainly hard to balance and judge sometimes whether a 2 or 3 is one that is going to escalate and that I should treat or if I need to let it go and just ride it out. I am still at the point where I can't treat every migraine with an abortive (I get more than 6-8 a month still), but I am getting better at knowing when to treat and treating earlier. I do think this has helped. Just something to think about I guess - we all learn different things from different folks!
Hang in there and I hope you have a GOOD day!
Katie
Katie,
Thank you for reading my SharePost and thank you for your kinds words of encouragement.
You raise a good point. I'm glad you brought this up. Yes, it is important to take an abortive early for it to work properly. And my doctor has said that "when" I have a pain free day from the shoulders and up (a whole day!), the next day she wants me to walk around with my triptan in my hand ready to take it at the first sign of a migraine...the first twinge of pain. But, I haven't gotten to the point of having a pain free day yet. But, I'm hopeful that I will get there. I'm guessing (I don't know this for sure) that for people that don't have chronic migraine they should treat their migraines sooner. But since part of my problem (and how I believe I got to this point) is the overuse of medicine I have to now treat very rarely with medicine if at all possible. I hope that makes sense. I've wondered the same thing, but at this point I am trusting my doctor and listening to what she tells me. But I also know this is just my personal prescription for treatment. I wouldn't want anybody to read what I am doing and think they should "ditch" what their doctor has said and do what I am doing. We are all on our own journeys. And remember I am a migraine patient like you. I am not an expert on migriane disease. I'm just learning as I go along just like the rest of you.
My best to you.
Missy