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Jayne Pickard
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I'm a single mum to two wonderful girls aged 26 and 20. I'm...

Jayne Pickard

Tuesday, November 06, 2007
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Oh how this annoys the hell out of me!Last Thursday I awoke with the familiar thudding behind my right eye and tightness at the base of my skull foretelling of a migraine imminent. Not the best day to get one as it was shopping day! So I gritted my teeth, took some medication and prayed for strength ...
  1. It is annoying
    Denise Garrett
    Tuesday, November 06, 2007 at 01:38 PM

    I know Jayne. It seems this world is clueless to what a migraine truly is. They act like it is just a headache. I could scream too. I do to myself.  I suffer almost everyday with migraines. I hate it when people say, "Oh have you tried this?" Like duh, no I just haven't tried anything. I truly feel for you. I know people who try to make it sound like they have pain also, and it's like, "my pain is worse than yours." It's so annoying.

    Hang in there! 

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    Jayne Pickard
    Tuesday, November 06, 2007 at 04:05 PM
    Thanks for replying Denise. I don't know how you cope daily, weekly is enough for me! I just wish these softies who profess to have a migraine when all it is, is a bad headache, could have just one migraine. Then they'd understand.
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    Denise Garrett
    Tuesday, November 06, 2007 at 04:16 PM
    Yes. I know. I had a boss that kept saying, "I understand." but she didn't. I ended up quitting my job, because she was such a "B" and she wrote me up for, my "job performance." So I ended up resigning. I didn't want to, but I was to the point, that everyday was such a struggle to get out of bed and go to work.  I'm much better now, being home. I still get migraines, but I can control them a little better now. Sometimes, nothing helps, so have to go get shots at my doctor's office. It gets so old! Mellow
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    Jayne Pickard
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 02:47 AM

    Several "friends" say that too it makes me want to slap them but thats awful about your boss! Over here they're not allowed to give a bad reference, it may be the same over the pond, I don't know.

    I've never thought of going to the doctors or A&E when I have one, I just can't stir out of bed or very far at least. They scare me sometimes I have to admit and I'm hoping that my neurosurgeon may operate on the discs in my neck which in turn may alleviate the pain!Cool

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    Denise Garrett
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 12:37 PM

    Jayne,

     

    So do you have herniated discs? Mine are bulging discs, and one report read herniated. So I don't know. However, I went to 2 Neurologists, and they both sent me to PT. for the 2nd time. So I go for another MRI in March(because I have no insurance, I have to wait). Then, a Orthopedic Surgeon will look at that. He is the only one that said, come back in a few years, if you still have the pain.....then we will talk about surgery. So I've had over 20 chiropractic visits(never again) and PT, and went to Pain Mgmt doctor for Trigger point injections. I've also had Facet injections. They are like epidurals, outpatient. All this, and I'm still in pain with my neck. So I'm kind of scared, but I think if this doc wants to do surgery,( I hear he is good) then I will probably do it.

        I woke up with a stiff and sore neck and my shoulder hurt so bad last night, I could cry. I put Bio-freeze on it, that helps some. Well, it's nice chatting with ya.  Hope you are having a good day!Big Smile

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    Jayne Pickard
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 02:45 PM

    Yes I do. I have two herniated discs in my neck pressing on nerves in my arm and head. I had an MRI scan in August and am awaiting the outcome of that. If the discs are more prominent than they were in my last scan a couple of years ago (and I think they are as the pain in my arm is much worse as are my migraines) then I think that he will operate. I trust him implicitly though and will try anything to get rid of this pain.

    I had facet joint injections in the base of my spine (I have several discs out all the way up) and NEVER, ever again! The pain was worse than the actual disc slipping out in the beginning!

    Do you have MSN? I enjoy chatting with you so much! Hope you've had a good day :)

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    Denise Garrett
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 04:39 PM

    Well, I hope it all works out for you! My pain goes down my in my right arm, and shoulder too.

    My direct email is nieceyrenee@yahoo.com, I do have instant messaging- I think that is what you meant, but I don't know how to set it up. My daughter knows how to do all that. I have enjoyed chatting with you also. I live up North, Englewood, OH. It is getting a bit chilly here. I'm off to my weight watchers class. I did start that up about 10 weeks ago. I have lost 7.6 pounds. It's another battle for me. I'm about 35 more pounds to go! Sometimes, I just go in and get weighed, if I'm not feeling well.

    Sounds like you do need surgery. I know it's hard to do anything when you're in pain. My boyfriend is pretty good with me. I'm glad I have him to take care of me right now, since I'm not working. I never imagined it would get to this point. But I guess we have to do what we gotta do.

    Take care!

    DeniseBig Smile

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    Jayne Pickard
    Thursday, November 08, 2007 at 03:05 AM

    Thanks Denise. Mine goes down my left arm and in my shoulder, even my painkillers don't take it off so I'm actually hoping that he will operate! Don't think 've ever actually wanted surgery in all my life!

    I live in the UK "up north" like you although in my case its West Yorkshire!

    I'll e-mail you later on this morning. I did mean instant messenger although the one I have is MSN. But it is compatible with Yahoo; still, its no good if you don't know how to use it is it?Big Grin

    My girls are good, in fact Laura my youngest is my full time carer as well as a student studying childcare at college!

    Take care xx

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    Traveler
    Wednesday, November 14, 2007 at 04:17 PM
    What type of shots do they give you,I cannot taake imitrex as I Have very high blood pressure with attacks.The only way out is Narcatics.........I Hate them.I like to find out what helps people and dosages as my doc is good at listenung.Now the er......depends  
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    Denise Garrett
    Wednesday, November 14, 2007 at 07:33 PM

     Traveler,

    I get Torodol shots (anti-inflammatory drug) and phenergan. Works great. I can't take the Torodol tablets, they tear up my stomach! But if you can get your doctor to give these to you if it gets bad, it helps. But usually, like all pain meds, it only works for awhile. Then the migraine is back. I can't seem to shake them this last year has beenalmost daily. Good luck to you!

     Denise

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  2. i understand
    mcmurraychick
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 08:30 AM

    i understand just what you mean.......

     

    but sometimes even a doctor can't tell...... case in point.

     

    monday afternoon i went to the dr for an intense headache.... i could tell by where the pain was it wasn't a migraine YET!! i figured it was sinus, as it was nice and warm the weekend, and had started turning cold.  sure enough after being seen, and having the check my nose and ears, it turns out i was right, although the dr gave me the same meds as he would with a migriane ( he knows that if the pressure and pain last too long it will start an attack ) they also threw in antibotics and a decongestant.

     

    but i hear that i hve a migraine line out of my sister almost daily....... and i tell her that if ibuprofin is all she needs then it might just be a bad headache. it makes her mad. but every last one of my migraines land me in bed begging for mercy.

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    Jayne Pickard
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 02:34 PM
    I've had sinusitis too, not nice, every movement causes the throbbing across your cheekbones and forehead, and like you say completely different to a migraine attack. Bed is the only place for me when an accute attack is raging. If I can stem it off with medication, all well and good but 9/10 times i can't.
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    mcmurraychick
    Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 03:28 PM

    same here...... and right now my ears and throat hurt bad......

     

    but it could be worse..... at least i can get up and move around.

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    Jayne Pickard
    Thursday, November 08, 2007 at 02:56 AM

    Oh no hope you feel better today?

    In my last reply I don't think I made it clear that it's a migraine attack that has me in bed, not sinusitis!Roll Eyes

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    mcmurraychick
    Thursday, November 08, 2007 at 06:43 AM
    normally that is true for me too....... but ummmm infection has zapped my energy, so i am taking it easy. but thank you , i do feel better today
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