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How do I get my wife to participate?

By Tim orender Tuesday, October 09, 2007
I've been posting A lot on the Migrain community. I would like Marietta to post some. At least try. The computer scare's her. She know's I will help her post correctly, She's just afraid of the monitor, And the concentration she think's it will take. She's so good with word's, And she has so much she can share, And want's to share. it would help her so much to talk to the wonderful folk's on the forum. She can start with baby step's if needed. Or start with A short SharePost. She need's to here from other Migrain sufferer's though. That's my request. Someone please contact her. Say youv'e read my post's as most of you have. And just say hi. Man how I want her involved. It's helped me. I know it will help her. I won't pressure her about it. I just know though, A few word's from someone else who hurt's will go A long way. it's time for her to talk.
10/11/07 1:44pm

Hi Tim and Marietta!

I understand about the computer screen being a trigger for migraines. Luckily that doesn't seem to bother me. Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and let you know you are not alone. Mariette I hope you know how fortunate you are to have a man who loves you the Tim says he loves you. I myself have a wonderful hubby and try as he may there are times I know he gets tired of hearing me say "not another migraine".

Since the screen is a problem for you why not let Tim read posts to you and when you feel like sharing let him type it for you while you kick bck and relax. I have found that sometimes it helps just to have somewhere I can vent my frustration and anger to someone who knows what I'm going through. I also like to take time to give words of encouragement when I can.

Take care of each other.

Gentle hugs and prayers to you both!

Anita

10/21/07 4:33pm
I posted for the first time today.  I have been reading alot and trying to find idea's and helpful ways to try to live my 3 days a week with no pain.  I need your help too, please Marietta, if you can help just one person with what you know it's worth it!
10/21/07 8:05pm
Hi. This is Tim marietta's husband. I do most of the computer work for her. I'll track down you'r post. I feel sure marietta will help you anyway she can. Despite the pain she love's people. And trust me she understand's, And has much knowlege of the subject.

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By Tim orender— Last Modified: 09/04/10, First Published: 10/09/07