Hi Countrygirl!
Of course there is help out there for you! We have a list of patient recommended Migraine Specialist that you can take a look at.
Bottom line is, if your doctor is unwilling to have you as a constructive member of your healthcare team, it's time to (in the words of Miss Teri Robert) "Fire his sorry butt!"
If you are getting more then 2-3 Migraines a month, then you would be a candidate for preventive Migraine treatment: Migraine preventives: Too many options to give up!
Also see: Preventive, Abortive and Rescue Medication: What's the Difference? and Migraines: Where to Start.
Good luck!