My husband just doesn't seem to get it. When I am having a migraine attack, I'm vomiting and near crying from the pain. He sometimes acts like I'm over reacting over a normal headache. He doesn't ever get headaches even, so he definetly can't relate physically, and I wouldn't wish for him to, but how can I make him understand just how serious this condition is?
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Q: How can I make my spouse understand how severe my pain is during a migraine attack?
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3/ 8/09 1:49pm
Hi!
Unfortuately, this is a fairly common problem. I'm sorry you're having to deal with it.
Can you gt our spouse to read a bit? If so, take a look at Migraine and Headache Education for Those Who "Don't Get It" In that article, you'll find links to materials to help with this issue. If you think listening would be better than reading, you can have hiim listen to a podcast -- Understanding Even When YOU Don't Have Migraines.
Another thing that can be helpful is to take him to the doctor with you when you go to talk with your doctor about your Migraines. Sometimes, that makes it really sink in.
Hope this helps!
Teri
2/27/09 11:35pm
Ask him why anyone would ever fake being unable to move or open your eyes...and vomiting? Who can fake vomiting?
2/28/09 1:22pm
This is a real problem for all of us suffering from migraines. I am lucky to have a husband that has suffered migraines as well and knows how it goes. Have your hubby take a peek at this website, some of the questions and answers.... I am taking control over my migraines this year, they will NOT control me and one of the things I would like to do is help others. Get your husband informed, there are so many websites and blogs out there and we can't all be over reacting right. Take care
3/17/09 4:37pm
It's hard for someone to understand when they don't have them have you asked him to read his migraine conection, maybe if him reads what people have to say he will understand.
before i married my husband to told him about my migraines how much i have to if he wanted to be with me he will have to take the down side. Hope that helps.
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