Cheryl,
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You listed Migraine as your topic for this question. Is that your primary diagnosis? From your description, I have to wonder if maybe you have more than one headache disorder -- possibly Migraine and cervicogenic headache. Mind you, I can't diagnose, but I can help you with information and some questions to ask your doctors. I'd suggest you take a look at Cervicogenic Headache - The Basics and see if you think that fits you and should be discussed with your doctor.
Over the years, I've been to many types of doctors too, and I can tell you that the real turning point for me was getting myself to a real Migraine and headache specialist. (I also saw one doctor who called herself a Migraine specialst when, in fact, she knew less about Migraines than my family doctor.)
Your doctors saying that it "has to get better or worse before they can figure it out" would, for me, be enough reason to fire them and look for a new Migraine and headache specialist. I know you said you've been to one, but none if them is the right doctor for every patient, so I think it would be worth another try.
It's important to note that neurologists aren't necessarily Migraine and headache specialists. Take a look at the article Migraine and Headache Specialists - What's So Special? If you need help finding a Migraine specialist, check our listing of Patient Recommended Migraine and Headache Specialists.
I really hate it that you're in so much pain. Please keep me posted on how you're doing?
Welcome again,

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