I'd love to be able to give you a firm answer, but the only person who can do that is a doctor who can review you and your family's medical history, discuss your symptoms with you, and conduct a complete examination. There are over 100 headache disorders that could be causing your problems.
If your doctor isn't able to help you, it may well be time to consult a Migraine and headache specialist. It's important to note that neurologists aren't necessarily Migraine and headache specialists. Take a look at the article Migraine and Headache Specialists - What's So Special? If you need help finding a Migraine specialist, check our listing of Patient Recommended Migraine and Headache Specialists.
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