I am the husband of some one just like you. Believe me, I know how he feels, but I also know how you feel. My wife is the same. She cant do anything except be a couch potato, especially in the summer time. Its really frustrating when you cant go out and have some fun or even do yard work with your wife. I got married so we could be together,which is not working out the way I wanted it to. Right now I am on this site trying to find an answer for her. I know she wants to do things with me but everytime she does she usually ends up taking the next day off of work, which we really cant afford. She also gets headaches as soon as she lays down in bed at night. I tell her that I think its because the extra blood pressure in your brain. Imagine if you were hanging upside down. There is alot more blood pressure in your head. Anyway, you can tell how frustrated I am. -SM-