Tuesday, May 29, 2012

best reaction v.s. worst reaction

By Numbnose Monday, January 24, 2011

 

How have those in your life been there for you??

 

Recently I have been looking at my life differently, I believe that when you are given a diagnosis such as the one we all face every day, you have to decide that you are either going to let people kick you while you are down, or stand tall, hold your head high and let the world know that you may not be able to dress yourself today, go to the bathroom without help tomorrow or to remember who you are 10 years from now, but that you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect every single day. You are human just like everyone else on this planet, and you are just as important as the next jerk in line at Target. (I am still trying to decide on shirts that say I'm not drunk I have MS, for when things get bad. I hear that might be helpful, lol.)

So here is what I am asking everyone to do. Share with the group here, some of your best and worst reactions, from anyone, family, friends, strangers & neighbors (some who we wish were strangers) when you told them you had MS. Or maybe just had to "remind" them for one reason or another.

I will reply to myself and go first. Also, does anyone know how or where I can start a blog? Message me don't post it here. Thanks!

1/24/11 10:41am
  • 1) My aunt told my grandmother, upon hearing my great news.... Just don't give her any money, she makes things up. She just wants you to give her money.
  • 2) My grandmother told me, wait to see what the neurologist says, it might be one of the brain infections. (like I visited a 3rd world country recently)
  • 3) My mother, maybe it's nothing and will go away, your uncle had bell's palsy once.
  • 4) My husband of almost 9 years, "you know shit happens, just like ***** getting cancer (*****=a family member that passed away) and when she had it, her husband had days when he couldn't stand to be around her. This is going to be a long term thing with you and I really don't think I have the patience for it. You know how my patience is with the kids, but this is too much. I don't plan on being able to stick this out.

 

Then there was my sister. "Just remember, our family is crazy, I love you & I am here for you if you need me, no matter what." She is 25 and younger than all of them and me. Yet she is the one I know I can depend on.

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By Numbnose— Last Modified: 01/24/11, First Published: 01/24/11