MY WIFE WAS DIAGNOSED WITH MS IN 89 AND IT HAS BEEN HELL FOR ME I,M A VIETNAM VET WHO SUFFERS FROM PTSD AND SOMETIMES I WANT TO END MY LIFE BUT THEN I SAY WHAT ABOUT HERS. WE,VE TALKED ABOUT SEPERATION BUT I,VE INVESTED 30 YRS OF MY LIFE TO HER I CAN,T DO THAT BECAUSE IT WILL HURT.SO I SAY I,M GOING TO STICK WITH MY PLAN TO STAY WITH HER BUT SHE TRYS TO PUSH ME AWAY.SHE WANTS A MUTUAL SEPERATION BUT I DON,T SEE IT THAT WAY,YES I GET FRUSTRATED AND I ASK GOD WHY BUT MY QUESTION GOES UNANSWERED. HELP ME PLEASE BEFORE I LOSE IT.
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Mandy,
These are such simple ideas to remember, but so very important. So much is unspoken and unseen with this disease that we must not allow it to wedge and fragment ourselves from our most cherished and loved.
Thank you are sharing this with us, both in your last post and in this one.
Lisa
I like that you used the words "unspoken and unseen." They are propably the two most important things in a marriage, especially one invaded by multiple sclerosis.
Communication is so much more than words!
Thanks, Lisa.