I am sorry to hear that you are suffering from so many health issues.    I am wondering about one thing. You mentioned that after blood work, you found out you are now in menopause.   Have your periods stopped for over a year?  That's pretty much the way a person knows when they are in menopause. I too was informed by my Dr after some blood work that I was "post menopause" which made me laugh because I was still having a normal period every month and continued to do so for many more years after. When I questioned my DR about this, she responded that I probably wasnt really getting a period...just "monthly shedding"  and that the lab results don't lie !   Isnt it sad that so many  Drs make their diagnosis based more on lab results and less on what is actually going on with the patients body?