Oooh, I feel for you. My son is about the same. After all the waiting and checking with the Doctors regarding conditions like Thyroid issues, and other possible problems. The long story short, I was wrong to consider restricting his diet to lose the weight. I didn't really like to hear that, but he is expected to grow into it, his weight and lose excess as he hits his growth spurts. Oh well, I really wanted to make his diet, I mean, like I have to diet. So, while his second helpings on food have been taken away, he eats normal meals and snacks, but I don't let him eat adult size portions. He does wait about 10 minutes after his first helping before he will ask me for seconds. He doesn't really have patience to wait, and will go outside to play. Oh, that was another, he is not playing videos over a 1/2 hour without going outside for an hour, I still got him on that one....