My 13 daughter weighs 216lbs is that too heavy???

You need to ask your pediatrician for help and create a team (doctor/dietician/source of exercise daily) to help her.  as her mom, you don't mention if this is "in the family" - whether it is or isn't everyone at home needs to agree to change habits and the way the household(frig/pantry/eating out) runs for the health of everyone as you help your daughter to shed weight.  Find a university hospital nearby that may have a child or teen weight loss/support program.  Your fears are well-founded but you cannot isolate your daughter.

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she needs to lose weight now.  I suggest you take her to you family doctor and get on a meducally approved diet.

Yea that might pose a problem when she wants to start talking to boys, nobody wants to date mobey dick.  I know a girl who is bigger then that, she is suicidal and has no friends.  I also have a car, your daughter would not fit in my car.  So dont ask me for a ride.  My friend just said your daughter is going to kill herself if you dont get her lipo immediately.  She needs weight loss protein (or surgery).  Hit the gym not the Dunkin Donuts.

Holy crap YES, my 13 year old sister weighs 100 pounds and she is normal.  WOW lose weight or you are going to DIE, cum daddy

WOW!!....i am 13 and i weight 36kg/79lbs

i suppose im only 145cm tall

WOW im 13 and i weigh 36kg/79lbs

but i am very small!