Wow, I am so glad that I looked on line today to read your story's about the gastric bypass Roux en Y surgery's. I had the surgery in 2003 and I lost 100 pounds, then I turned around and got remarried and he wanted children even though I was over 40 and felt that I was done having children, I had even had a tummy tuck. For the love of a man I went through with it in 2009. My body went right back into shape and I lost all the weight which was only about 20 pounds, that was almost 3 years ago. Yes I have gained that and more this past year. I have been stressed out and depressed and I have a man who cook about 5 times a day. I take care of my 95 year old grandmother, I have a 20 year old step daughter from hell always causing problems in our house, a 17 year old who is a very good kid, a 9 year old who hates school and my favorite toddler almost 3, a naggy, complaining, mean husband. How exciting is my life. Most nights I can not sleep so the doctor precribed Ambien. I knocks me out but within 4-5 hours I'm back up like it's nothing, now I understand that the pills are not working properly because of the surgery.