Yesterday, I went in for another bone density exam. I am not looking forward to the results. I have been really depressed and a walking ball of anxiety.
Is there anyone out there that feels the same way? That thinks life could be extremely bleek, if this monster is allowed to thrive?
My mother is not a great shoulder to lean on for support. She is always in her own little world. I am looking for others who feel the same as I do.... who I can share my thoughts, fears with. The other factor that I am dealing with is that I am finding out opinions in my family that I brought this on myself..... I would like to know is this, How did I bring this on myself? Do I have some great power that I can force my body before birth to be allergic to diary? Is it my fault that during my bones critical years, the medical community did not understand the critical benefits of calcium supplementation? Is it my fault that over the period of years that my body developed endometriosis? I have a family history of this cursed disease...... Caused my own hysterectomy and menopause??
It is amazing, the only support that I recieve is from my boyfriend and his family..... They are the one's that fully understand that my health issues are not my fault. They rally around me when I suffer the fractures. Tell me that I will heal and move on, that they love me and will be there for the next......
If you made it through my book, without being bored to tears. My name is Victoria. I am glad that I found this place. Hopefully it will help me cope with this, because right now, I am not doing so well at it.


Hello, Victoria. Thanks for writing. I'm glad you found us.
Your bone health history is certainly extensive and challenging. Your situation, as you know, seems quite concerning.
To help, I'd like to offer a few resources:
People Who Are Living With Osteoporosis
http://www.healthcentral.com/osteoporosis/c/role/1/
Here you'll find posts from people who can relate to some of the same issues you're facing
Why Your Bone Density Might Not Improve, Even If You're Taking an Osteoporosis Drug
http://www.healthcentral.com/osteoporosis/c/73/12196/lack-bone/
Expert physician Dr. Neil Gonter offers advice about realistic expectations of bone-building drugs
After a Fracture: The First 48 Hours
http://www.healthcentral.com/osteoporosis/c/9487/9957/48-hours/
Expert Caregiver Lila de Tantillo talks about important aspects of follow-up care after you experience a fracture
Calcium Supplements: To Take or Not To Take?
http://www.healthcentral.com/osteoporosis/c/73/2496/calcium-to/
Again here, Dr. Gonter addresses a common question for people with osteoporosis
I hope this information is helpful to you. I can help you find more if you need it. Just let me know.
Keep us posted on your progress, Victoria. We look forward to hearing from you again soon.
Best to you,
Maria
Maria Gifford
Community Moderator
OsteoporosisConnection.com