I was diagnosed with osteoporosis almost three years ago at the age of 29.  I have been on Actonel for a little over 2 years, but recently began having problems with reflux.  During this time, my bone density improved in two places, but became worse in one place.  My doctor wants me to try Reclast infusions, but I'm really concerned about how it will affect me reproductive-wise.  There is a possibility my husband and I may want to try for another child in about 4 years or so.  When I was on Actonel, I just figured I would stop treatment for about a year before we started trying.  But after researching Reclast, I'm not sure if it will be safe for us to have another child if I begin treatment.  Is it possible?  What are the risks?

Also, being so young, I would like to know what my future may be like with this disease.  My previous doctor made it sound like I was in for a lot of suffering!