Information and opinions on health from RissaJoy at HealthCentral.com. HealthCentral.com is one of the top health destinations on the Web, with more than 35 condition-specific, wellness and general health Web properties. http://www.healthcentral.com/profiles/c/103403/index http://www.healthcentral.com/profiles/c/103403/rss self application/xml en-us 15 120 19 http://www.healthcentral.com/images/hc_logo_sm.gif http://www.healthcentral.com/profiles/c/103403/index http://www.healthcentral.com/rheumatoid-arthritis/c/103403/65196/pain Sun, 29 Mar 2009 22:44:48 -0400 RissaJoy My hubby and I are trying to talk about limits and capabilities.  As you know, they change!   I don't wanna be a complainer! How do I communicate the frequent changes, (we have 2 toddlers, so we must work together) without giving constant pain-o-meter updates?   I'm thinking of giving it a positive twist such as:   Instead of, "I can't do the dishes tonight, I'm hurting too much"    Maybe I'll say,... http://www.healthcentral.com/rheumatoid-arthritis/c/103403/65196/pain