Retired from the military 12 years ago.  Enjoy doing woodworking projects and when I'm bored (Quite often) you can find me fishing.  I suffered major trauma to my groin area by sitting on a coffee table counter-topped with 3/4" glass.  The table and glass broke and cut my colon in 9 different places, my lower intenstine, my bowel and destoyed my bladder and external schpinter muscle.  The restuctured bladder developed a very large diverticula which sits lower then the actual bladder, so I get frequent UTI's and is why I take Macrobid.  I didn't care to have a bag hanging on my leg or anything inserted, that is why I were diapers.  The doctor say's the Uroxitral is to strenghten the muscles of the bladder and maybe someday I'll give up the diapers.